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Look what you made me do : a powerful memoir of coercive control / Helen Walmsley-Johnson.

By: Material type: TextTextPublisher: London : Picador, 2019Description: xv, 310 pages : 20 cmISBN:
  • 9781509848751
Subject(s): DDC classification:
  • 362.8292 WAL 23
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Standard Loan Moylish Library Main Collection 362.8292 WAL (Browse shelf(Opens below)) Available 39002100693499

Enhanced descriptions from Syndetics:

Not all abuse leaves a mark.

For more than two years, BBC Radio 4's The Archers ran a disturbing storyline centred on Helen Titchener's abuse at the hands of her husband Rob. Not the kind of abuse that leaves a bruise, but the sort of coercive control that breaks your spirit and makes it almost impossible to walk away. As she listened to the unfolding story, Helen Walmsley-Johnson was forced to confront her own agonizing past.

Helen's first husband controlled her life, from the people she saw to what was in her bank account. He alienated her from friends and family and even from their three daughters. Eventually, he threw her out and she painfully began to rebuild her life.

Then, divorced and in her early forties, she met Franc. Kind, charming, considerate Franc. For ten years she would be in his thrall, even when he too was telling her what to wear, what to eat, even what to think.

Look What You Made Me Do is her candid and utterly gripping memoir of how she was trapped by a smiling abuser, not once but twice. It is a vital guide to recognizing, understanding and surviving this sinister form of abuse and its often terrible legacy. It is also an inspirational account of how one woman found the courage to walk away.

'Powerful' Jane Garvey, Woman's Hour

'Compelling' Suzanne Moore

Author notes provided by Syndetics

For many years, Helen Walmsley-Johnson was the author of the Guardian 's 'The Vintage Years' blog, which had 65,000 regular readers and she is still a regular contributor to the Guardian and the New Statesman. Before beginning her column, she worked for the Daily Telegraph and as Alan Rusbridger's PA at the Guardian . Her book about middle age, The Invisible Woman , was published to great acclaim in 2015. Her experience surviving coercive control is powerfully told in her personal memoir Look What You Made Me Do . She lives in a village in the Midlands.

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